Our Team

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Here at We Are Survivors, we provide a variety of online, offline, 1:1 and group support services direct to self identifying male survivors, along with their friends and their families, often referred to as ‘loved ones’.

As an organisation we also provide workshops and input into training courses to health and social care professionals, Police and legal professionals, public authorities and private sector, faith leaders and communities, teachers and students, and the voluntary sector.

Every single member of our amazing team are 100% committed to supporting those directly and indirectly affected by the sexual violation of boys and men, with some of the team having lived experience themselves.

We work in a non-oppressive, trauma informed and male focused manner and do not support any form of discrimination, whether on the grounds of gender, age, race, disability, religion, sexual orientation, HIV status, parental status, socio-economic class, or criminal history. All of our team understand the need for individuals to be able to generate their own identity and we are positive about all male and non-binary identities.

Our Team Structure

In order to ensure that everyone knows how they fit into the organisation, we developed a simple reporting structure that shows us who is responsible for formally managing and supporting whom. We call this our organigram and its reviewed bi-monthly to ensure that its fit for purpose, particularly as we grow and develop further.

Meet YOUR Team

It is said that people make an organisation and here at We Are Survivors we believe this is true. Our strong, dedicated, highly experienced and qualified staff team are so supportive of the work they carry out and of each other that it truly reflects on the delivery of our services. Each member of the team fits neatly into what we call our ‘Organisational Governance Structure’ which gives the organisation structure and an understanding of accountability and responsibility.

Click on the name of any of our team to see what they have to say:

Aisling

Services Manager
OUT Spoken

Alison

Criminal Justice Services Director

After working for many years in safeguarding and pastoral management of specialist and complex needs schools across South Manchester Alison decided to retrain to become a Psychotherapist.

After completing her Post Graduate Diploma in Counselling and Psychotherapy at the University of Salford in 2016, Alison knew she wanted to work within the criminal justice system post qualification and counseled in two greater Manchester male HMP Prison estates for over five years.

Why did you decide to work for We Are Survivors?

Early on in my training, I came across one of We Are Survivors booklets with stories, poems, and writings from Survivors. I gave this to my very first client to support their journey and it changed their whole outlook and helped them move on with their story knowing they were not alone!

Who wouldn’t want to work with an organization that has the power to move, support, and makes people feel they belong in their own skin?

What would you like to see We Are Survivors do in Manchester?

Break down the barriers within the prison system regarding trauma and the profound effects and legacy it has on people and breaking the stigma of talking about men and women’s mental health and their needs within the wider prison estates.

Do you have a message for Greater Manchester residents?

Start talking and make talking about your mental health to each other a norm. Understanding where you have come from can enable you to decide where you going and break those taboos and stigmas.

Breaking the silence is what Survivors is all about, there is no judgment only guidance and support

What’s your favourite thing about Manchester?

The diversity and culture of the city, the proximity of countryside to conurbation, and the general community support pulling together in a crisis.

Allison

Trauma Informed Therapist

Allison joined us in 2018 as a Trauma Informed Therapist, having completed her Post Graduate Diploma in Counselling & Psychotherapy at Salford University in 2016.

This marked a complete change of direction for her having spent almost 30 years working in local government across the Greater Manchester area in various managerial roles. So she decided to put some of those skills and experience into practice in the voluntary sector and ended up managing Trafford Rape Crisis whilst she trained to be a Counsellor.

It was during this time that she met Duncan, as they often found themselves at long meetings trying to raise the profile of services providing much-needed support to men and women who have experienced any kind of sexual violence. Representing the voices of all of those people who needed to be heard.

And now she spends her working time bearing witness to the voices of some of those people as she helps them survive, heal and thrive through her role at We Are Survivors. She says this is the best job she has ever had!

Why did you decide to work for We Are Survivors?

I already knew Duncan and had decided to wait for the right role to come along in an organisation that I really believed in. Fortunately, I didn’t have to wait too long!

What would you like to see We Are Survivors do in Manchester?

Continue to reach out and provide much needed support to all the men who need it in increasingly challenging times.

Do you have a message for Greater Manchester residents?

We are here, and will always be here when you need us.

What’s your favourite thing about Manchester?

It’s home and it’s where I belong.

Arrow Business Communications

Telecoms Manager

Becky

Trauma Informed Therapist
OUT Spoken

Ben

Trauma Informed Therapist

Billie

Clinical Supervisor

Catherine

Trauma Informed Therapist

Chris

Deputy Chief Executive Officer

Raised in Blackley in the 1980s, Chris was never really sure what he wanted to do for a career but then found himself spending 12 years in the catering industry, working in the city centre of Manchester, where he gained his management and organisation skills.

Chris states that he will always have a passion for food but felt like it was his time to move on and to start something new.

He began volunteering in the third sector with We Are Survivors and there found a passion which he wanted to build on his experience and use his existing skills to help the service. Chris then joined the Victim Support administration team and helped with a number of big projects, including the merging of two sites into one.

Chris is happy to be back with We Are Survivors and having made this choice, he says he looks forward to his future and hopes to be a productive member of the team (we can guarantee he is!)

Family (proud dad) and friends are the greatest part of his personal life and also has a love of football, reading, movies, music, and art.

Why did you decide to work for We Are Survivors?

Having volunteered in the past I always wanted to come back to We Are Survivors to take on a role full time. After seeing what the team did on a daily basis was inspiring and I knew I wanted to be a part of the organisation. The work ethic and professional attitude of the team and how they related to people using the service was always a big part of my decision to come back.

What would you like to see We Are Survivors do in Manchester?

Give people the best service and the power back to move forward from their abusive experiences and raise awareness that we are here to help more people who have been silent for too long.

Do you have a message for Greater Manchester residents?

I’d like residents to support to reducing the stigma associated with male sexual abuse and rape, this does happen to men and they need support whether from historic or current abuse. We all need to show respect and give support to the people of Manchester and stop any children or adults from going through this.

What’s your favourite thing about Manchester?

Born and raised here all my family and friends are here, a great mix of people and for me it’s a city on the rise with a bright future.

Daniel

Independent Sexual Violence
Advisor (ISVA)

Independent Sexual Violence Advisor (ISVA)

Organisational Thematic Role: Sexual Health / HIV Lead

Born and raised in South Manchester, Daniel’s had a variety of careers, as a Hairdresser & Barber, gaining numerous of Qualifications along the way. Within his career Daniel has experience of working within Pub Management and being a Male Nanny ‘Manny’. Daniel has lived not only in Manchester but Windsor, Mallorca and Gran Canaria, but as a true Mancunian returned to his roots!

Why did you decide to work for We Are Survivors?

I am a survivor of rape and was a service user with We Are Survivors before joining the Team as an ISVA. During my time as a service user, I accessed The Safe Room and the Drop In and grew as a person and became proud to break my silence. By sharing my journey, because of the support I received by my Peers and the We Are Survivors team, I felt like an individual, not a number. During my time as a service user I became the Drop In volunteer and as I knew first hand how big that step is to push the door open into the service, I wanted to join the incredible team who are breaking down the barriers of gender misconceptions, myths, serotypes and ensuring the voices of male survivors are heard locally and nationally.

What would you like to see We Are Survivors do in Manchester?

Continuing our Specialist Support Services we offer to Survivors in the community and in our North West Prisons. Engaging more with local organisations by delivering factual awareness about Sexual Abuse, Sexual Exploitation and Rape. Allowing an individual to recognise the signs, who then may feel comfortable to break their silence.

Do you have a message for Greater Manchester residents?

I do! Never let anything define you, you are the owner of your own destiny and journey. We are here for you… when YOU are ready.

What’s your favourite thing about Manchester?

The NIGHTLIFE of course! Also the diverse culture and legendary history of Manchester, that’s why I returned!

Dawn

Clinical Supervisor

Debbie

HR Manager

Duncan

Chief Executive Officer

CEO & Trauma Focused Therapist

Duncan spent the first 10 years of his working life in the theatre, arts and entertainment. Beginning at Granada Studios Tour, to the Palace Theatre and Opera House, then People’s History Museum to travelling across the UK as Director of PR and Marketing touring the UK with some of the best shows to come out of the West End and Broadway.

In 2005, Duncan began his training to become a qualified counsellor and decided to have a complete career change after volunteering in a busy City Centre needle exchange. He spent the next few years working within a voluntary sector drug service both in harm reduction and treatment services, specialising in working with male and female sex workers, people affected by HIV and Hepatitis C, and in sexual health.

Duncan qualified from the University of Manchester as an Integrative Counsellor in 2008, having completed his clinical practice in both a voluntary and NHS setting. Always looking for ways to develop his professional practice, Duncan has completed a MA in Counselling, graduating 2010 with Distinction, and plans on developing his work further to undertake his PhD.

It was during his initial training as a therapist that Duncan began to uncover, raise his awareness and finally disclose the sexual abuse and rape he experienced in his childhood and in his later teens. Unable to find the support he needed was the catalyst to designing a service for males in Greater Manchester.

What would you like to see We Are Survivors do in Manchester?

When I was looking for support in Manchester and realised that there was none for male survivors of historic abuse, I knew I had to do something and make sure that whatever was created had to be ethical, professional and more than fit for purpose. I now want We Are Survivors to be able to offer a first class service to adult male survivors of sexual abuse and rape, regardless of when the event happened.

I would like to see We Are Survivors work with other services in the community to get the message out there that men are suffering in silence and it doesn’t need to be that way!

Do you have a message for Greater Manchester residents?

Please open your eyes and begin to see that men can be victims too!

Sexual abuse affects us all, regardless of race, religion, sexual orientation, economic status, disability. We need to work together to give support to those affected, in order for them to move forward and make positive life choices.

What’s your favourite thing about Manchester?

The people! Manchester is so diverse and communities really do come together, especially in times of need. We have so many first’s here! To pick one… it would have to be the vast array of arts venues on offer, from the Palace Theatre to Royal Exchange, Odeon to Cornerhouse.

Professional Membership

Duncan is an accredited member of the BACP and adheres to the Ethical Framework for Good Practice in Counselling and Psychotherapy. He is also a member of the EMDR Association UK and Ireland.

Duncan

Independent Sexual Violence
Advisor (ISVA)

Independent Sexual Violence Advisor

Born and raised in Stockport and Manchester in the 1980’s, Duncan has had a varied career in retail, the pub and club trade and warehousing. In between he studied Archaeology and English, living in Cornwall and Derby but eventually drawn back to the North. As time went by he felt more and more drawn to working directly with and helping people. He worked for Victim Support for 6 years helping vulnerable victims of crime before completing his ISVA training.

In his personal life, he enjoys reading, history, films, getting outdoors, travel and cooking (and any combination of these) – as well as dabbling in writing and craft projects.

Why did you decide to work for We Are Survivors?

Working with vulnerable victims of crime made it clear to me that there were real gaps missing in regards to services for males. I had seen and read about the wonderful work that We Are Survivors do and I wanted to be a real part of that team.

What would you like to see We Are Survivors do in Manchester?

I’d love us to continue to provide a fantastic service but also to in time expand on this so we can reach out to even more people. In turn and by doing so, lead by example so other services across the UK and even worldwide can see how vital and powerful this type of service can be!

Do you have a message for Greater Manchester residents?

I want people in Greater Manchester to be aware that men can be supported to thrive even after surviving sexual violence and for us to be able to have a conversation together about how we tackle what’s happened and what is still happening. This is our responsibility to make sure that our loved ones and vulnerable are getting the support that they need. Even if you are just raising awareness you are part of that healing process! Please don’t underestimate the power of one to make changes and be the change they want to see in the world; but when like-minded people come together it can be incredible.

What’s your favourite thing about Manchester?

The general attitude in our art, music, food and most importantly the people. We are innovative, creative and positive. I love the Manchester spirit!

Fraser

Community Development
Co-Ordinator (Mandem Meetup)

Gareth

Services Manager
OUT Spoken

Services Manager: OUT Spoken

Gareth started working at We Are Survivors in January 2022. He has previous experience working in retail for over 15 years. His counselling journey started after he had completed a degree in Fashion Buying but did not feel it was the right career choice for him.

During his counselling training Gareth completed his hours at HMP YOI Styal and discovered a passion for working with people who were in vulnerable situations. He then went to work in schools across Preston working with the young people there for 3 years.

In his spare time, he enjoys reading, watching films, seeing his friends and family and walking his dog Chester.

Why did you decide to work for We Are Survivors?

Working in HMP YOI Styal gave me a real insight into what service users of prisons really go through and how I could help impact their lives in a positive way as a counsellor. Working for the OUT spoken team allows me to go in and use my skills to help men to look at whatever may be troubling them and help them to make sense of what is going on for them in a very vulnerable time in their lives. I also wanted to join a fantastic team of therapists, ISVAs and community workers that do make a real change to the lives they help.

What would you like to see We Are Survivors do in Manchester?

To keep providing spaces so that difficult conversations can take place as that is where the healing happens. I would really like to see Survivors grow as an organization so that it can help as many people as possible.

Do you have a message for Greater Manchester residents?

Manchester is a wonderful city of excitement and innovation. I know that with this attitude Manchester can learn to talk about male sexual assault and rape and bring down the stigma of this topic.

What’s your favourite thing about Manchester?

My favourite thing about Manchester is the atmosphere it has. No matter which part of the city you are going through there is always some where exciting to visit or something wonderful to see. The people make the city what it is. Visiting the shops in the Northern Quarter or John Rylands Library for some culture is always a treat.

Gary

Community Development
Co-Ordinator

Gayna

Independent Sexual Violence Advisor & Advocacy Manager

Thematic Lead: Drugs & Alcohol Misuse

Born and raised in North Manchester, in one way or another, Gayna’s work has always involved supporting individuals with a range of vulnerabilities and complex needs.

Experienced in various roles and settings within Social Care, including Residential & Community Mental health, Homeless Residential Support, Substance Recovery and Engagement and Community Detox.

Why did you decide to work for We Are Survivors?

I first met Duncan many years ago as a volunteer on the needle exchange at Lifeline. Duncan was my mentor initially and later my line manager when applied for a paid position as a community detox worker.

While working with Duncan I learned about his vision for We Are Survivors and gained knowledge about male sexual violence, exploitation and the lasting impact on male Survivors.

In 2015 I was offered my first position as Outreach & Engagement Worker on the ‘Safer Streets Manchester’ Child Sexual Exploitation project. Then in January 2017 a role was created with a need to expand the ISVA service, I already loved working for We Are Survivors, this was another exciting opportunity to grow within the organisation, so off I went and completed my ISVA training.

Fast forward to 2021 , I was offered the position of Lead ISVA! Another opportunity to grow, learn and continue to make a difference.

The role obviously comes with greater responsibility and new challenges, but I’m ready and excited for the future.

As a We Are Survivors ISVA, we represent , support and advocate for the men we work with on various levels , from direct one to one support to ensuring their voices are heard, by working closely with our partner agencies and stakeholders , allowing us to play an instrumental part in shaping procedure and informing policy where it matters.

Not everybody gets to work for an organisation that they can honestly say they are really very proud to be a part of.

What would you like to see We Are Survivors do in Manchester?

In my previous bio, I spoke about my hopes for extending our ISVA service to offer support to male survivors in prison.

I’m proud to say , this has been achieved . Serving a custodial sentence is no longer a barrier to reporting !

Our ISVA team are now present in several prisons across the Northwest.

So what next?

Continue to break down barriers , destroy myths and stereotypes and make We Are Survivors even more visible and even more accessible , to reach the men who still don’t know we’re here and the men that do know but feel unable to access us for various reasons.

Do you have a message for Greater Manchester residents?

I have two messages.

The men we support are a true inspiration. The strength and determination these men have is incredible. The feedback we receive from our clients is evidence that the work we do is valuable.

We have a brilliant , dedicated , specialist team who are passionate about supporting male survivors. It’s never too late to seek support, we know it’s difficult, but please reach out, we’re here.

If you’ve suffered sexual violence, telling anyone may feel impossible, so considering reporting to the police can be very frightening.

There is no right or wrong, no should or shouldn’t, when it comes to reporting , the choice is yours.

Our ISVA team can give you all the information you need to make an informed decision. No pressure or judgement – we will support you whether you decide to report or not.

What’s your favourite thing about Manchester?

It’s got to be … My true sense of belonging, walking down the street and feeling right at home…the community spirit, the energy and realness of Manchester and its people. And anyone one who knows me will know, I love a propa Manc accent !

GM Rape Crisis

Trauma Informed Therapist
OUT Spoken

Grahame

Design Communications
Co-Ordinator

Heather

Clinical Supervisor

Hilary

Clinical Supervisor

Jamie

Community Development
Co-Ordinator (Mandem Meetup)

Jamie

Operations Director

Snr Operations Assistant

Jamie has a keen interest in sports, which led him to undertake a degree in Sports Development and Management at Edge Hill University. It was whilst at university that he learnt about the incredible work that We Are Survivors are doing, when our CEO, Duncan Craig, did a guest lecture on supporting and working with male survivors of abuse. This inspired Jamie to research and examine the stories of several elite athletes who have been sexually abused for his dissertation. Whilst writing his dissertation he was provided with a desk in the We Are Survivors office, which he says provided him with an understanding of the essential work the organisation does and gave him that extra motivation to complete his work.

Being at the start of his career and having recently completed an MSc in Sports, Physical Activity and Mental Health, he hopes to continue being a productive member of the team, learning more about the impacts unwanted sexual violence can have on male survivors and to help continue making a difference.

Why did you decide to work for We Are Survivors?

Having been provided with the amazing opportunity to have a space within the We Are Survivors office to complete my university work, I was able to see what incredible work the team are doing. So, when I was offered to opportunity to come in and be a part of the organisation, it filled me with pride and something I was excited to do.

What would you like to see We Are Survivors do in Manchester?

To continue giving people the opportunity to access such an amazing organisation that offers such a variety of quality support services. Without We Are Survivors being here, it would be so much more difficult for male survivors to make that first step in healing and moving forward.

Additionally, I would like to see We Are Survivors team up with sports governing bodies, organisations and clubs to develop campaigns aimed at educating the sports community about sexual exploitation within sport.

Do you have a message for Greater Manchester residents?

That men can be victims of sexual abuse and rape too. We need to work together to support those that have been affected and help them move forward by reducing the stigma that is associated with the sexual abuse and rape of men. Let’s come together, shout loud and help raise as much awareness as possible about the impact and presence of sexual abuse and rape.

What’s your favourite thing about Manchester?

As a massive music fan, I would have to say that. Manchester has seen and is still seeing some incredible musical talents and artists come out of the city, and I have lost count as to how many amazing gigs I have been to. The city also holds some of the most amazing music venues – Manchester Apollo being one of my favourite.

I’d also have to say the football. Coming from Oldham and being an Oldham Athletic fan – there is nothing like the atmosphere at Boundary Park on a Saturday afternoon.

Jane

Trauma Informed Therapist

Jeff

Group & Community
Development Worker

Group and Community Development Officer

Born and raised in Cheshire in the early nineties, Jeff fad a love for music, art and footy. He had various jobs growing up from working in a bacon factory and working for warehouses and removal companies.

It was when he was in his twenties he decided to train as croupier here in Chinatown Manchester.

After 10 years working and living in Manchester in the casinos and also for Royal Caribbean cruise line he decided to change career. Volunteering for NSPCC Childline Manchester was his first step, then volunteering for a community sports project within a drug and alcohol service.

Later he worked for Change Grow Live as a young person’s substance misuse worker and then later he was one of the first Social Prescribers in Manchester working for the BeWell service at the big life group.

Why did you decide to work for We Are Survivors?

As a survivor of CSA I found it a very lonely road and one that not many understood. As 13/14 year old, I found myself at the local library in Cheshire to access Self-help books about sexual abuse and it’s impact. There was not much help/support in the early nineties for male survivors.

Luckily I accessed support from We Are Survivors in 2017 after watching the ex-football players speak out on national TV. I thought how brave of these men to speak about something most people want to close their ears to or shut out.

After accessing We Are Survivors I received 10 one to one sessions of pretrial therapy(or healing steps) and was appointed an ISVA (Gayna). Now my work colleague, who would support me through the police process and during the trial at Liverpool crown Court.

I also accessed the drop-in and the safe room, it was here I felt an overwhelming empathy to help and support all these men and boys who share these similar experiences and aftermath of trauma.

What would you like to see We Are Survivors do in Manchester?

As a greater Manchester organisation, I would like to see more safe rooms and drop-in support available at different locations throughout Greater Manchester. I would also like the men and boys we support to feel safe and welcome in their own community, free from guilt and shame that does not belong to them.

Do you have a message for Greater Manchester residents?

You can’t change the past but you are in control of your future. You have the power of choice to change this if you wish. Be kind to yourself and others.

What’s your favourite thing about Manchester?

I think the range of diverse people that reside here, It’s a place with lots of hidden gems, mills with cinemas, restaurants and bars with views across the city, the music, the buskers on Market Street, Central Library and all the amazing buildings. The creative scene and the strength of the people together to overcome anything that life throws their way.

Jo

Clinical Supervisor

Julie

Clinical Supervisor

Karen

Trauma Informed Therapist
OUT Spoken

Trauma Informed Therapist: OUT Spoken

Karen’s journey begins in Greater Manchester, in the wonderful Wigan.

Aged 12 she had a desire follow in her Grandad’s footsteps and join St John Ambulance which, voluntary at first, but later it became a paid job where she taught and assessed first aid in many settings all over Greater Manchester. Along the way this extended into working in college, teaching and assessing first aid college staff and students enrolled on other courses. Doing this provided two more steppingstones and openings. Staff development provided the chance of more training courses in teaching and a link with Universities of UCLAN and Huddersfield where Karen gained Cert Ed and a Batchelors Degree with (Hons) in Training and Education.

Whilst delivering first aid training in a beauty and holistic setting in 1995 it was decided that that this would be another area of interest and many more courses were studied. In 1996, Karen set up in business which ran successfully for over 25 yrs.

When her mum sadly passed away in 2014 and not knowing who to talk to professionally, this experience led her to train to become a Counsellor/ Psychotherapist. During this course there was the chance of joining the Samaritans and an interest in many roles the main one being the BPSO for the prison team, training prisoners to become listeners within the prison setting where she found a way of helping those in prison to grow and develop.

Why did you decide to work for We Are Survivors?

The reputation and respect are second to none at We Are Survivors. When I heard of a chance of a possible role here, despite pondering whether to retire or not, I grabbed the opportunity with both hands. The role is the “gift that keeps on giving” and I wanted to be part of it. It is a privilege to work with a great team within the criminal justice setting.

What would you like to see We Are Survivors do in Manchester?

Continue to give males a voice, help them to be heard! Men’s feelings need to be encouraged and their emotions understood. The offer of non-judgmental support is here, and it is unconditional.

Do you have a message for Greater Manchester residents?

The people of Manchester have hearts of gold, they are generous, strong, and loyal. Please help to keep the service of We Are Survivors alive in this wonderful city.

What’s your favourite thing about Manchester?

The shops!!!! of course, the allure of the bright vibrant city life. I feel excited and fuzzy inside whenever I visit Manchester.[/vc_column_text][/vc_column][/vc_row]

Luke

Community Development
Co-Ordinator (Mandem Meetup)

Mark

Trauma Informed Therapist

Thematic Lead: Men’s Health

Mark joined the We Are Survivors team in January 2022. Before becoming a therapist, Mark spent around 20 years as a support worker, supporting vulnerable children and adults.

Mark has worked with clients for over 3 years in private practice and as part of a small team of therapists offering crisis support to people online and over the phone who otherwise have difficulty accessing counselling.

In his spare time, he enjoys swimming – sometimes wild swimming. Going for trips in his campervan and relaxing at home.

Why did you decide to work for We Are Survivors?

The more I have worked alongside and supported people who are trying to make sense of, and heal from difficult and traumatic experiences, I knew I wanted this to be how I use my skills. I also understand how difficult it can be for many men to talk and make connection, especially when feeling vulnerable. The ethos at We Are Survivors in supporting men to break the silence is something I feel passionate about, I am also proud to be part of an organisation have such a big impact on the lives of so many men.

What would you like to see We Are Survivors do in Manchester?

It takes on average over 20 years for men who have survived rape and sexual assault to talk about and share their story. I would like to see We Are Survivors continue to be at the forefront of the movement to change this culture of silence amongst men.

Do you have a message for Greater Manchester residents?

I feel proud to be living in an area with a long history of fighting for social justice. I think there are many reasons to be proud of Greater Manchester and it’s people, We Are Survivors is one of them.

What’s your favourite thing about Manchester?

That’s easy, the people, Mancunians are straight up, friendly and big hearted.

Mary

Trauma Informed Therapist

Matt

Trauma Informed Therapist

Michael

GM RASSO Comms & Engagement
Co-Ordinator

Monika

Trauma Informed Therapist

Nick

Data Entry Co-Ordinator

Nisaa

Acting Services Manager
Community

Acting Services Manager: Community

Nisaa qualified as a Psychotherapist in 2018 from the University of Salford. After qualifying Nisaa worked within 5 schools across the North West as a Mental Health Practitioner and supported children and family through intervention. Nisaa worked with many different cultures/religions and created workshops for teachers and parents to explore the different cultures and how we view Mental Health around the word.

Working within the volunteer sector to support Adults and children has been a big part of Nisaa’s journey as it allowed Nisaa to work with different walks of life and really see the different ways to work as a practitioner, tailoring her skills to support cultures when needed. Volunteering at University clinics, ChildLine and Schools gave Nisaa experience with different ages and settings which helped her understand the importance of adapting the way we work to support clients.

Nisaa has always been passionate about supporting people and wanting to make a real difference, therefore Nisaa proudly joined We Are Survivors in the new year of 2021.

Why did you decide to work for We Are Survivors?

I have known about We Are Survivors since I started University and I have always wanted to work for an organisation where we focus on a group of people that do not get much attention. Duncan and the Survivor’s team have dedicated their time to support the Men of Manchester and I wanted to be apart of this journey. We Are Survivors has created change and I hope to continue to add to this by working alongside the Survivors team

What would you like to see We Are Survivors do in Greater Manchester?

To keep doing what they are doing! Supporting the lads from all backgrounds and giving them a space at We Are Survivors

Do you have a message for Greater Manchester residents?

Let’s break the silence and lets work together to make change

What’s your favourite thing about Manchester?

The people, the sense of community and just having a laugh, Manchester is truly an amazing place and I am proud to call it home. I know If one place can say ‘do one’ to the Stigma behind Mental Health Manchester can do it!

Njal

Acting Services Manager
Community

Acting Services Manager: Community

Njal joined We Are Survivors back in November 2020 as a Trauma Informed Therapist. Njal completed 4 years Advanced Training in Transactional Analysis in 2018 and in 2019 became a Registered Member of the BACP.

For four years, prior to working for We Are Survivors, Njal was a Counsellor at Beacon Counselling where he worked with both male and female Adults. His work included supporting those who experience anxiety and depressive symptoms, suicidal ideations, and processing grief.

Along with Njal’s therapeutic experience, he also has a degree in BA (Hons) Criminology and Psychology, which he graduated in back in 2005.

Prior to working as a Therapist, Njal brings with him a wealth of Managerial experience within the Insurance sector, which took place over a period of 15 years. Such a role involved managing the wellbeing and welfare of individuals in large teams in an office-based environment.

Njal feels warmth and authenticity go a long way to creating a safe and secure setting for all clients; the Therapeutic Relationship is a vital part of the healing journey.

Why did you decide to work for We Are Survivors?

The concept of ‘manliness’ as being strong and in control can mean it is seen as a weakness to ask for help. If men feel a pressure to appear strong, this can stop them from opening up, for fear of being ridiculed as being vulnerable and weak. Instead, all men should be actively encouraged to express all feelings and their experiences, so as to break the stigma.

The safe space, voice and empowerment We Are Survivors is giving to those sexually abused males in order to “Break their Silence” is awe inspiring; something I really embraced when I first reached out to join the organisation.

What would you like to see We Are Survivors do in Greater Manchester?

To continue to grow as an organisation and shout from the rooftops “we are here!” Such a voice will provide us with the scope to reach more people in Manchester and beyond.

Do you have a message for Greater Manchester residents?

It takes a lot of courage to speak out, but when you’re ready we will be here to listen……it’s never too late to “Break YOUR Silence”!

What’s your favourite thing about Manchester?

Manchester is my home; it was where I was born and have lived all my life!

It has everything you could want (apart from the weather). Great restaurants, nightlife, fantastic gig venues, the birthplace of many top bands, plus it is also the home of the best football team around, who just so happen to wear red.

Paul

Trauma Informed Therapist

Phillip

Trauma Informed Therapist

Rebecca

Trauma Informed Therapist

Rebecca qualified as a psychotherapist in 2021 after studying at The University of Salford. Coming from a community and youth work background; she carried over an understanding that “one size” doesn’t necessarily fit all, preferring to work collaboratively with clients listening to their unique wants, needs, and fears- using all this to shape her relational work. After co-founding one of Salford’s LGBT youth clubs, working to promote and celebrate the unique experiences of Salford’s LGBT youth; she sought out therapeutic work collaborating within the adult LGBTQI+ community and considers her roots in this speciality.

Rebecca identifies as mixed race and bisexual and so she has always been interested in and attuned to the needs of those with minority experiences. She values highly the ethical principle of justice in her work- striving for equity with all clients, restoring experiences for those who have been left disempowered by difference and trauma. During her training she became fascinated by the impacts of shame within the therapeutic space, and how best to bring safely into the therapy room that which feels uncomfortable or risky to discuss.

Rebecca is Passionate about amplifying the voices of those who have unique identities and experiences, encouraging their stories so to promote compassion, understanding and celebration thereof. She is now thrilled to continue in this as part of the amazing team here at We Are Survivors!

Why did you decide to work for We Are Survivors?

We Are Survivors was the first service I ever signposted a client towards; this was my first ever client in training and I remember the huge sense of gratitude and relief in knowing that there were people armed and ready with the care and knowledge to support men who have survived sexual abuse and violence. Since that first client experience which illuminated for me the complex experience of the male survivor, I remained attuned to the necessity of We Are Survivors’s invaluable work. It feels an honour to now be part of this amazing team, providing the same support that I was so grateful for not too long ago!

What would you like to see We Are Survivors do in Manchester?

To continue connecting deeper into the more diverse communities of this city, amplifying their amazing work breaking the silence of, and inspiring hope for, this city’s deserving survivors no matter who they are.

Do you have a message for Greater Manchester residents?

The more we communicate about unspoken subjects such as male victimisation and male emotion feeling, the more we can normalise them and break the stigma. Let’s encourage boys and men to speak out about their difficult experiences and show them they deserve to be heard!

What’s your favourite thing about Manchester?

The thing I love most about Manchester, is the feeling of Manchester! During lockdown I discovered the canal walks which sum up the feeling of this city so well- Manchester’s different spaces and communities are all connected, you can feel the history and the spirit of this city flowing throughout. I didn’t grow up in Manchester, but there’s a welcoming energy here that makes me feel at home!

Riz

Trauma Informed Therapist

Thematic Lead: LGBTQI People of Colour

Riz qualified in 2019 as a therapist and joined We Are Survivors in 2021 as a Trauma Informed Therapist. He is a member of The British Association for Counselling and Psychotherapy.

Riz is passionate about working with people to become fulfilled, healthy and reconnect with themselves. He supports the view that everyone has the capacity to change, no matter how lost or helpless they may feel.

In his previous life he ran a food manufacturing business supplying local restaurants, further developing his business to supply supermarkets both nationally and internationally.

Why did you decide to work for We Are Survivors?

We Are Survivors provided me with a safe space to grow and develop, when I qualified as a therapist I reached out to We Are Survivors and was presented with an opportunity be part of this amazing organisation. How could I refuse.

What would you like to see We Are Survivors do in Manchester?

To continue to reach out and raise awareness of the sexual abuse and rape of boys and men, and to give a voice to those boys and men in marginalised communities. Moving forwards I would like to see We Are Survivors more visible within these communities.

Do you have a message for Greater Manchester Residents?

The greatest challenge in life is discovering who you are. The second greatest challenge is being happy with you find.

What is your favourite thing about Manchester?

I love the diversity of Manchester, we have an amazing mix of cultures, ethnicities, languages, the energy, the vibrancy. It’s a city where you can immerse yourself (a pick me up).

Rob

Snr Trauma Informed Therapist
OUT Spoken

Snr Trauma Informed Therapist: OUT Spoken

Rob left University in 2011 and began working as a Sports Coach in and around Manchester. During this time, some of his work involved him worked alongside Manchester’s Youth Offending Team, offering daily sports activities to the young people they were working with.

After 3 years, he became the Sports Coach/PE Lead for 2 Primary Schools in Salford and continued with this amazing role for 7 years. He began training to be a counsellor in 2016. The incentive to study counselling was to be able to support young people more, as Rob believes that the earlier people can begin to recover from traumatic life experiences, the more fulfilled a life they can lead as a result. His own life experience supports this belief.

Sport was a great way to connect with those children and young people who may find it difficult to participate in other areas of life because of what they have experienced, but for those where Education is a part of the problem, there has to be another angle to approach from. Rob believes therapy to be that angle. Rob recently qualified with a Diploma in Therapeutic Counselling in August, 2021 and We Are Survivors is his first employment in this new and exciting career for him. As a person who is extremely passionate about helping the younger/next generation(s), he also found great benefit in working with clients of all ages during his placement and that trauma and recovery do not have age limits. This made him decide to not be as restrictive with the age groups he will work with, but instead focus on a specific area of therapy, which is Trauma Informed.

Now being employed as part of the OUT Spoken team, Rob feels as though he has come full circle, and in being able to work with and support, those that find themselves on the other side of the law, he now has an opportunity to continue where his journey initially started and potentially make a difference to those who are often forgotten about.

Why did you decide to work for We Are Survivors?

Very simply, the opportunity to work for We Are Survivors presented itself to me, as I was just about to qualify as a therapist, and it was just too good of an offer to not take. The work Survivor’s Manchester do is extremely important and the chance to go into prisons and really be of service to the men in there is a gift and an honor. I feel very fortunate to be beginning my career with such an amazing organisation, actually out there doing important work.

What would you like to see We Are Survivors do in Greater Manchester?

To continue the fantastic work they are already doing and keep building the OUT Spoken Team so that more Therapists can go into prisons and support the men and boys that are in there.

I am also a huge advocate of living a healthy way of life as I believe it contributes massively to how you feel. So I’d like to be able to integrate taking care of yourself, eating well, drinking water, exercise and doing things you enjoy into the therapeutic process. I feel Survivor’s Manchester is a place which holds similar values in that respect and offers its staff the freedom to bring these ideas into the work that we do if appropriate.

Do you have a message for Greater Manchester residents?

Yes, I’m no expert, but I believe that healing is a life-long journey. One that is initially terrifying, will be one of the hardest things you’ve ever done and will sometimes feel like a constant battle where continuing to go on seems impossible at times. But if you go at your own pace, accept the help that is on offer to you and remember that you are a Survivor and deserve to be OK, it will be the most worthwhile thing you could ever imagine and life can be there for living. It all starts by taking that first step.

What’s your favourite thing about Manchester?

A mixed lamb kharai with keema and peas from Kabana on Cheetham Hill Road with a couple of chapattis and a bowl of salad!
No, in all honesty, Manchester is home! I’m a proud Manc. I walk Manc. I talk Manc. And I love the way Manc’s never apologise for who they are. The fact we ask people we know or multiple strangers daily “Yalright?” is evidence that we care about one another and generally speaking, if you ask somebody in Manchester for help, there is a good chance you’ll get it.

Rory

Admin Co-Ordinator

Admin Co-Ordinator: OUT Spoken

Thematic Lead: Research

Rory was born in Leicester to a tight-knit Scottish family and has been jumping north and south of the border their whole life.

He graduated First Class in Philosophy at the University of Dundee in 2020, where they represented students in varying capacities and organised a Scotland wide undergraduate humanities conference. In 2021, while living with their parents during the height of the pandemic, Rory attained a Distinction in Psychoanalytic Studies from Birkbeck College. He is keen on the writings of Hegel and Lacan, and films by Clio Bernard and Shane Meadows.

Rory moved to Manchester to live with their partner, looking for work whilst building up a portfolio for future research; approaching psychotherapy through the lens of the arts and humanities, continuing to apply logistical and administrative experience moreover.

Why did you decide to work for We Are Survivors?

Despite coming from a theory-based background, I was left wanting to make a real impact with said knowledge and organisational experience in hand. Further, for me, setting the stage for people to express themselves is as rewarding as being centre stage myself!

I moved to Manchester to look for work in a mental health admin/ops role, and I ended up being taken on by We Are Survivors after an energetic interview. The busy life of an operations role has more than satisfied my longing for praxis, while my desire to keep learning is supported so enthusiastically by We Are Survivors.

What would you like to see We Are Survivors do in Manchester?

To keep providing the invaluable service we provide.

Beyond this, I look forward to seeing how the data and the reputation we continue to build makes waves in research and the wider socio-political landscape. I hope We Are Survivors can go on to create a healthy learning culture surrounding male sexual abuse and rape.

Do you have a message for Greater Manchester residents?

The truth can never be put into words alone. Conveying trauma is not just to speak but to engage in art and play, to express yourself across physical and mental spectrums. The truth may keep dipping away, but the pursuing path grants us knowledge. I see this in everything We Are Survivors provides for its people.

What’s your favourite thing about Manchester?

The food is to die for, it’s great having such good curry, pho and sushi on my doorstep. Overall though, the layered depth of this city, its institutions, people, and spirit are beyond alluring.

I just need a better social life to match it…

Safety2Business

Health & Safety Manager

Sam

Senior Operations: Data Analyst

Thematic Lead: Public Health

A South Wales native, Sam moved to Manchester in 2013 to study Philosophy at the University of Manchester. He switched over to Mathematics midway through his first year and graduated in 2018. After working in various procurement roles for an online personalised gift company and the NHS, he joined the We Are Survivors family in early 2022 and is delighted to be a part of it. He’s looking forward to helping the organisation grow with his previous academic and professional experience, while also in turn learning from the organisation and amazing people who work there and use the service.

Sam spends his free time listening to and making music on weeknights, and his weekends surfing either the Yorkshire Coast or the Gower Peninsular.

Why did you decide to work for We Are Survivors?

I was feeling slightly disillusioned with the world of procurement towards the end of 2021 and decided to look for roles which had more in common with the elements I enjoyed so much during my degree, while also feeling like I was contributing to a good cause. I quickly stumbled upon a role at We Are Survivors and after a few hours of research and reading about its origins and staff bios, it was clear that We Are Survivors was an inspiring and essential organisation, doing unprecedented work in the North-West. This, combined with the already enticing job description made me even more determined to put everything into joining.

The realisation of this has been exceeded my already high expectations, and I’m excited and proud at the thought of being able to help We Are Survivors grow further over the coming years.

What would you like to see We Are Survivors do in Manchester?

To continue its growth and become even more of an established name in Greater Manchester, in turn help break the stigma around men speaking out.

Do you have a message for Greater Manchester residents?

To speak out when you feel ready. It definitely takes courage but breaking the stigma around men speaking out about anything from abuse and trauma to their own wellbeing is so important. I haven’t been working here long, but the openness of my colleagues has really inspired me to not keep my own feelings and anxieties bottled up, it’s been extremely beneficial.

What’s your favourite thing about Manchester?

Originally it was the music, I chose to study here due to a long-term obsession with artists The Fall and The Chemical Brothers, which in hindsight was a pretty ridiculous reason! Although I love the music and art which is currently coming out of Manchester, the people are what’s kept me here. I’ve met my best friends here, and I’m still constantly amazed by the inclusivity and warmth of Mancunians.

Sarah

Finance Manager

Simon

Trauma Informed Therapist

Simon joined us in February 2017 and is working for us as a Trauma Informed Therapist. Simon completed a 4 year Diploma in Transactional Analysis in 2017 and became a Registered Member of the BACP later that year. Prior to working for us, Simon worked for 42nd Street as a counsellor working with 14-25 year olds in Manchester. His work included supporting young people with anxiety and depressive symptoms, processing grief, eating disorders, and attachment-related issues.

Prior to working as a therapist, Simon spent time working in various roles in the social care sector supporting people with mental health, learning disabilities and acquired brain injury. He also provided training for staff working in these roles.

Simon brings elements of mindfulness, existential, and relational approaches to his work. Simon believes in ‘walking alongside’ clients in order to explore their story and understand their needs. In this way, Simon looks to find the goals and outcomes that are most important for that client at that time.

Why did you decide to work for We Are Survivors?

I have always had a real passion for working with men, particularly in the field of mental health. I feel, from my own personal experiences, that there is a great deal of shame related to men speaking openly about their mental health which keeps them silent and perpetuates the suffering. As We Are Survivors is all about breaking the silence of men who have been sexually abused, it felt like a perfect fit with my own values.

What would you like to see We Are Survivors do in Manchester?

I’d like to see us grow as an organisation so we can do more of what we already do so well and reach more people. I’d like to see us engage with those communities that, for whatever reason, rarely engage with mental health services. I think it’s also important we take a role in engaging with other services and the general public to understand the impact of sexual abuse so that it becomes a conversation across the region rather than one that only happens in the therapy room.

Do you have a message for Greater Manchester residents?

It’s never too late to speak out and ask for some support, whatever that means for you. Every journey begins with a first step.

What’s your favourite thing about Manchester?

The people and the food! I do my best to have plenty of both in my life

Professional membership: Registered Member of BACP

Stuart

Trauma Informed Therapist

Stuart comes from a creative background, having worked for many years as a professional musician and then later as a sound engineer and producer in recording studios and concert venues. Other than music, Stuart’s big passion is people! He was drawn to counselling after two very positive experiences as a client in therapy during some very challenging episodes in his life.

Following this he trained as a counsellor, gaining an MA qualification from Manchester University, and has been working therapeutically with all sorts of different people and issues ever since.

Stuart identifies as an integrative therapist, and strongly believes in a flexible and creative approach to working with people, where the therapeutic style and approach is fitted to each person and their unique way of experiencing the world. He has worked in two charitable organisations prior to We Are Survivors as a counsellor with a whole range of issues including anxiety, depression, trauma, sexual abuse, OCD, self-harm and suicidal ideation, anger management, self-esteem, sexuality and identity issues.

Working as a trauma-focused therapist is a natural progression from Stuart’s other creative activities (he is still an active musician, sound engineer and producer). He believes that every encounter with a client is a golden opportunity to create a meaningful, authentic connection, and this relationship becomes the vehicle for change and a playground for exploring the many different and often paradoxical aspects of ourselves. He believes that allowing those unspeakable experiences and thoughts to be voiced and explored in a safe, supportive environment is central to successful therapy, and this where their effect and impact can be reduced or transformed into something more helpful.

Why did you decide to work for We Are Survivors?

We Are Survivors is an amazing charity doing very important work and supporting an under-represented group struggling with some very challenging issues. It is an area I am very passion about working in and I wanted to bring my energy and counselling skills to working with this group of people. The welcoming and supportive ethos of Survivors is a great fit with my personal values and very close to my heart. The effects and fallout from childhood sexual abuse, and adult rape and sexual assault are devastating and far-reaching.

It takes immense courage for survivors to speak out and rise above the legacy of the abuse, and being able to walk alongside some of these brave people on their journey for a while and be involved in some way in their recovery feels very important to me.

What would you like to see We Are Survivors do in Manchester?

I would love to see the organisation continue to grow in the way that it has done over the last year, and eventually provide a service nationally all over the country. There is a real demand for the service that Survivors delivers and it is great to see that acknowledged and supported by IAPT and those that fund the service. I’m also really pleased that the it’s supporting Greater Manchester Police in the development of the Accord Programme through ‘Change Project‘, a seperate organistion aimed at those who have been abused and are at risk of offending. I believe this is a really important part of the overall picture of reducing offending and making society a safer place for everybody. I hope this area of the organisation continues to grow alongside supporting as many survivors of abuse as possible.

Finally I hope We Are Survivors will keep speaking out about male sexual abuse and rape and help to encourage others to do the same, and break down the stigma around this subject.

Do you have a message for Greater Manchester residents?

I have lived in Manchester for almost 15 years and I can say without question there is a lot of love in this city! So my message for Greater Manchester residents is…: You are great! Keep being you, support those that need it, challenge the things you don’t want to accept loudly and passionately, and carry on being the wonderful, diverse and energetic community that makes this city a great place to live!

Mancunians are not known for keeping quiet, and it would be good to see our voices collectively being used as much as possible to raise awareness of the impact and existence of all forms of sexual abuse and violence. Never be scared to have those difficult conversations, as that is what breaks down stigma and ignorance and encourages awareness.

What’s your favourite thing about Manchester?

Undoubtedly the people! Wonderfully diverse, full of beans and sometimes more than a little bit eccentric, but the spirit of this city is second to none. I sometimes go swimming at the Manchester Aquatic Centre, and there is a huge graphic on the wall down there that says: “This is Manchester… we do things differently round here”! That sums it up for me.

I also love the music scene in Manchester, and have lost count of the number of superb gigs I have been to here. And The Sugar Junction in The Northern Quarter do the best Eggs Royale and Oreo Milkshake you can get your hands on!

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